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The moment of truth

Post  Mya09 on Wed Oct 29, 2008 11:48 pm

ok so im going to go through the whole story from start to finish i have no clue how long this is going to turn out so bare with me.
My best friend who is like a sister to me is having serious issues right now. It all started when she started dating this guy named Morgan like a month ago. She was having suicidal thoughs before that but this was the start of this slope down. anyway they dated for about a week and broke up. She was having problems handeling it so ended up turning to the razor. It wasnt bad though it was just a few little cuts... Well i talked her through it and then she stoped and we went on happy as happy could be. Then she started dating this guy named Sam after that. He almost killed himself a week ago because they thought his sister or something died. When we thought he was going to committe suicide then she basicly almost did. She texted me saying that if he died she couldnt to on. Then she texted me again saying he wasnt answering and said bye forever. I talked her out of it and made her realize that she needed some help. She goes to some person every wendsday and talks to them for some other reason that has nothing to do with this. Well anyway she said that she would tell them that she was cutting and everything. I said thankyou. Well she never did and now her and Sam just broke up. She is devistated and said she couldnt go on anymore. Well i gave her a choice I told her i would go to the counselor for her.... with her permission, and tell her everything thats been going on. Or i would stop talking to her basicly cause i couldnt handle it anymore. I used to be a cutter so this was more of a trigger for me, therefore i felt that i shouldnt be subjected to it. I sat down and told her that she needed help and what not and she agreed.

Soooo basicly tomorrow im going to go tell the counselor at our school that my lovely "sister" is a cutter. Its really hard to do this but i kno that its best for her. Also its a lot easier since she agreed to it, which didnt supprise me because i had a feeling she would. But anyway i was just hoping that you all could pray for her, and possibly me. Thanks guys... and i will tell you how well this worked out tomorrow probably. again thanks.

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Post  Gavan Johnson on Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:17 am

hmm yeah sue will do that for you mya btw... it may be hard for you.. but maybe God wants you to use your testimony and help your friend out by using it... another thing is.. since you seem to be the one person she trusts telling maybe you should try to act as her counselor.. use whatever experience you have had and mayb like you plan on doing go to an actually counselor and ask them for on ideas on what to do and how to help your friend through this stage in her life..
btw good luck

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Post  Mya09 on Tue Nov 04, 2008 8:43 pm

heres a quick update on everything that went on... i went to the school counselor and told her everything, she let me go to my class and then she called down my friend. After that she talked to me and told me that both of the school counselors talked to her and that it went well. After that I have been talking to her and she seems so much better. Its weird, the talk we had was like back when we were younger and neither of us had any hard problems and stuff yet.... it was just nice. So needless to say my life is great right now and hers is to. Thats the end of the update =D

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Post  4ever4him on Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:08 pm

um there is more to tell now but i will let mya tell u her self but there has been more trouble so please pray for her friend(SISTER) paris and pray for sam's family ill just say that sam is now dead but ill let mya fill u guys up on that when she can....

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Post  Mya09 on Thu Nov 20, 2008 2:45 am

umm yeah with updates...well umm sam went into a comma and didnt make it. Paris is still doing fairly well tho for the situation that is. We are all still praying for her. Im hoping you guys are too it would make things a lot easier.

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